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November 21, 2012

Flying with Young Toddlers: Lessons Learned on a 5-hour Flight from Kauai

Our thinking was…if you plan everything just right, and come prepared, then things will go smoothly. Maybe there will be bumps in the road (or air), but since we’re prepared, we’d be able to face any problems head-on. This was Bergen’s 7th round-trip flight after all. This wasn’t our first rodeo.

Unfortunately, it’s just not that simple. Children are unpredictable, and The Young Toddler, we’re learning, is tricky. Too old to be held and sleep like an infant; too young to be entertained by movies and games. We thought we had it figured out though.

With an arsenal of new and exciting toys, and a stash of “highly valuable” food, we were ready to soar for more than 5 hours across the ocean to paradise with our little guy in tow.

On the way out, yes, we actually did fine. Passengers even remarked at Bergen’s great behavior. Flight attendants complimented us on our toys and distraction tools. This positive experience occured despite the fact that Bergen only slept for 30 minutes (in a 12-hour period).

On the way home however, we were in for a rude awakening. Again, we brought our toys and food. We even made a 1 & 1/2 hour nap just before we got to the airport happen, so that Bergen’s sleep bank was as full as we could get it.

Things were going along well with Bergen snacking, checking out books, and flirting with his fellow passengers. Then out of nowhere, all of the sudden, he vomited. This was no small spit up. It was the most we’ve ever seen in his 15-months here with us.

After the quickest clean-up in history, hoping the smell wouldn’t linger for too long, we tried to move on. We were also thinking that maybe it actually gave Bergen some relief. Smooth sailing ahead. Boy, were we wrong.

After some minor fussing, things just kept escalating until we had a maniac on our hands. Full on top-of-his-lungs screaming occurred.

He didn’t want to eat (anything).
He didn’t want to drink (anything).
He didn’t want to play (with anything).

We tried things our fellow passengers suggested. We accepted suggestions just so that we did indeed try everything, and exhausted our resources. Due to continued turbulence, we were also confined to our seats most of the time. The Alaska Airlines flight attendants were so very patient and helpful.

Finally after about 45 minutes of non-stop screaming, the poor guy passed out in my arms.

He gave the plane about an hour of peace and quiet before he woke up and started up again. Same level of noise. After 20 minutes though, I fortunately got him distracted by my phone. A phone with actual buttons. A smart phone it is not, but Bergen loved it, and relaxed enough for us to get some fluids and food into him. He was on the mend.

By the end of the flight, he was back to playing peek-a-boo with those sitting behind us. They were cautiously amused. A little late there, buddy. Better late, than never though, right?

After the worst flight in history, one might think we should just throw in the towel. Maybe wait until Bergen is a 5 or 10 year-old to fly with him again. Absolutely not. We learned some important lessons:

You can never be prepared for everything, so don’t get too stressed out about bringing everything, and thinking of every single thing.
Bumps will occur. Hunker down, and know it can’t and won’t last forever.
Most importantly, I know that the pain we endured was worth it because of the experience we got to share as a family. I’m so very thankful that we are able to travel. Those passengers around us, who were given ear plugs and free drinks because of Bergen, will soon forget all about our disgruntled passenger, and move on with their lives. We only have so many years before Bergen is at the mercy of the school calendar and then before we know it, he’ll be all grown up. We also only have so much time before it no longer makes sense for me to stay at home and have a flexible schedule. Who knows what the future will hold. I want to help my son see the world.

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Favorite Swimming Spot: Baby Beach: Kapa’a, Kauai

While we were lucky to visit many beautiful beaches on our Kauai travel adventure, there was one in particular where we spent the most time: Baby Beach in Kapa’a. In one form or another we visited this spot each day of our vacation. By the end of our trip we had figured out the popular visiting days and hours, the best shady spot to set up camp, and when the tide would be high or low.

Bergen certainly followed that rule.

Why did we spend so much time here when there was a whole island to explore?

First, there’s the convenience reason. The beach was just steps from the cottage we rented, making it a perfect location. Like most young toddlers, Bergen takes his best naps at home in his crib, and also likes to “sleep-in”. So on most days after a fun morning, he napped away, and we took it easy relaxing with our toes in the sand, or enjoyed the sunrise on those sleeping-in mornings {with the baby monitor perched next to us}.

Sunrise on our first morning in Kauai.

Aside from the handiness of location, as the name implies, it’s a perfect place for little swimmers, as well as older swimmers who might be nervous about entering the ocean. A natural rock wall offers protection from the rowdy surf acting as a buffer, and providing a calm wading pool-like environment. We were happy to meet fellow travelers with their little ones as well as many locals who visit the spot on a regular basis. Bergen was delighted to share his sand toys, and we marveled at how brave and carefree the young residents were in the water.

Bergen and his new buddy.

Even if we weren’t staying as close as we were, since the beach is situated near “Kapa’a Town” we weren’t far from restaurants, grocery stores, coffee shops, and other local shopping spots. On a couple of occasions, Slaed was able to go off on foot to find lunch to bring back while I manned the monitor or enjoyed some beach play with Bergen. It’s also just a block or so away from the start of the phase 2 Ke Ala Hele Makalae, an amazing shared-use path that runs along the coastline.

Developing a love of driftwood at a young age…

Have you visited Kauai? Where was your favorite place to swim? If not, where in the world is your favorite swimming beach?

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More Kauai Fun:

10 Things You’ll Want While Traveling in Kauai

A Quick Look: Kauai Adventure

November 15, 2012

10 Things You’ll Want While Traveling in Kauai

To give you an overview of our recent trip to the garden island of Kauai, I’ve compiled a list of 10 things one would need to bring from home in order to make their trip most complete and comfortable. Sure, some of these comforts of home might seem obvious, but you’ll also get the chance to see some of the spectacular backdrops we enjoyed from our too-short week long stay.

1. Sunscreen. At the top of the list, and coming from the girl who burned her back lifeguarding at an indoor pool. Okay, I was sitting by a door the was cracked open a bit, but still! Who gets sunburned at an indoor pool? Me. Protecting your skin anywhere, even in gray Seattle, is important, but especially crucial in Kauai where the sun is very intense.

Here it comes…and it’s fast! We had to be prepared.
Sunrise: Baby Beach in Kapaa

2. Raincoat. Funny that a raincoat comes right after sunscreen, but we were happy to have these around in the event of a seemingly random shower. The showers never lasted long for us, but they did happen. Depending on the time of year, and area of the island you are staying, you may need them even more. It was also nice to just have a light jacket around for the evenings when the sun goes down as fast as it came up, leaving us a little chilly (relative to the perfect daytime conditions).

Clouds rolling in at Waimea Canyon.

3. Earplugs. Kauai has some remarkable local birds. The most abundant being “The Moa” or “Red Jungle Fowl” or this one you might have heard of: “Rooster”. The locals don’t think they are too smart as they tend to crow at all hours of the day, and night, but most notably for us at 4:30 AM! For most, earplugs are a must if you don’t want to be bothered by the local alarm clocks.

These guys were everywhere!

4. Swimsuit. Yes, we did our far share of swimming while on Kauai. It was actually a good idea to bring two suits so we had backup while the other took a break get a little cleaned up and dry. Our favorite place to swim was at Baby Beach in Kappa’a. Mostly because all we had to do was walk out our door to get there, but also because it was ideal for Bergen. With a rock wall keeping the surf at bay, it was like swimming in a beautifully calm ocean wading pool.

Bergen contemplates the surf at Poipu’s Baby Beach, and dives right in at Kapa’a’s Baby Beach.

5. Hat. Our poor little guy is still working on getting some hair at 15 months old, so we had to be extra careful in protecting his creamy white noggin. Hats also kept the sun out of our eyes, shaded our faces from more burning, and came in handy during those funny rain showers. I also liked throwing a big hat over my not-so-pretty beach hair.

Bergen shows off his hat in Po’ipu.

6. Camera + Case. Another DUH! During our 7-day stay, I could not stop snapping photos. Most were snapped using my regular camera that was strapped to me {it seemed} at all times, a few here and there using my ipod’s camera so that I could post and email quickly to friends and family. We ran into some serious photographers on our adventures. Tripods, extra gadgets, and all. I like lingering around them because sometimes they spot things I am not likely to notice with a little toddler waddling around at my feet.

Slaed taking over camera duties at Hanakapi’ai Beach.

7. Water Bottle. Bergen’s liquid intake skyrocketed during our trip. Even back in Seattle it seems like he’s still on his Kauai liquid kick. Good instincts that boy has, and we always had bottle full of water (or two) at the ready for him. We always make sure to extra hydrate when we travel, and add the heat that we aren’t used to, it becomes doubly important.

Hydrating during our hike on the Kalalau Trail.

8. Sturdy Sandals. With all the beach time, flip flops might seem like the go-to shoe choice, but I was happy that I had my chacos. I still had the luxury of an open-toed shoe, but I also hiked 4 miles with a baby on my back with no problems. Keens (Slaed’s choice) or Merrill, whatever brand you like, a sturdy sandal covers you in so many Kauai activities.

Thankful to take a little break at the beach after hiking.

9. Sunglasses. Another item we rarely took off. If only we could find a pair that Bergen would keep on his face, I think he would really see the benefit too!

If only he realized how cool he looks in those shades not to mention the relief for his eyes…

10. Your Appetite. They sure do like to feed you in Kauai! From the luau we checked out, to breakfasts spots, to the traditional plated lunch, we were not lacking in the food department. In fact, many of lunches were just leftovers from breakfast.

Huge Pork Chili Verde Tamales at Kountry Kitchen in Kapa’a & the Hula Pie at Keoki’s Paradise in Po’ipu.

Have you travel to Kauai, or one of the other Hawaiian islands? What were you glad to have with you from home?

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November 9, 2012

A Quick Look: Kauai Adventures

Aloha from Kauai! I’ll post in more detail about all of our Kauai adventures, but in the meantime I wanted to give you a quick look at what we’ve been up to as we explore the island.

Sunrise Kapaa Baby Beach

Wailua Falls

Alarm Clocks: Moa Jungle Birds (Roosters)

Polihale State Park

Waimea Canyon

We are lucky to be staying steps from this lovely spot. Definitely having fun!

Beach Bum

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November 6, 2012

Travel Tips: Making the Most of the Guidebook

When we are truly on vacation, as in not traveling to visit family or on a quick weekend trip, one of the first things we do to prepare for the trip is to purchase a guidebook for the destination. For many reasons we need “the book” to make our trip complete.

Just a little beach reading in Guatemala…

1. Overview of our Destination. I love reading about some of the history of the country, city, etc in which we are traveling. The background gives me perspective when I arrive. To really appreciate the new place, it’s important to have some information to base the new experience on. It also doesn’t hurt to brush-up on a few key phrases if you don’t speak the language, as well as cultural norms and customs.

2. Roughly Plan our Days. After learning all about the destination, we look at the number of days we have to spend, and configure a rough itinerary. Depending on the size of the and scope of the place, this might include booking multiple lodging spots. I’m not talking a strict hour by hour itinerary, but just knowing a little bit about what we might do each day gets me excited, and helps me prepare.

3. Find “Off the Beaten Track” Spots. On many occasions, we have found spots, we never would have found just driving around. In Iceland, it was the Turf Farm that served delicious hot cocoa and Iceland’s version of a doughnut. In Guatemala, it was the special tour of La Playa Blanca, and the hidden waterfalls. The more you read, the more you know!

A picnic on the Big Island of Hawaii? Yes! Also note the book is not too far away.

4. Orientation Upon Arrival. When I arrive, by reading the book, it’s like I’ve put a face to a name. I’ve read, then get a bit of a visual, then read some more. Sometimes it’s even easier to take in some of the history and background once you’ve arrived because you have something to base your sights on.

5. Mark it up. When we find something we really want to do, we make a note in the book. We underline, star, dog-ear, and highlight to make the book our own. When we find places to visit from other sources like the newspaper, blogs, magazines, and word of mouth, we are sure to make a note in the book too. That way, all our perspective plans are all together in one central place.

Hiking in Iceland with the trusty book by his side.

The guidebook: Just one of the many resources we use to plan a truly special travel experience!

This post is part of Travel Tips Tuesday on WalkingOn Travels and Suitcases and Sippy Cups. For tons more travel tips, check out their sites!

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November 2, 2012

Friday Dreaming: The Big Island of Hawaii

We leave for Kauai on Tuesday (3 more days!), so I’m taking a look back at our Hawaiian trips of the past. Last Friday, I shared our first trip to the island chain, our engagement spot: Maui in 2008. 2 years later in 2010, we journeyed to the Big Island of Hawaii, and started a family tradition of traveling to one of the islands every two years during the month of November.

Though we did spend time on the beach, that’s not necessarily the first thing you think of when thinking of your visit to the Big Island. Volcanoes. Yes, that’s more like it.