Traveling to See Out-of-Town Grandparents: 10 Tips for a Fun and Successful Visit!

With all four of our children’s grandparents living a significant distance away from our home here in Seattle, we have quite a bit of experience with out of town visits.  Lucky for us, we love to travel, AND each of our parents happen to live in fun, beautiful locales.

Through the years, we’ve learned ways to make each trip comfortable for everyone involved, and at the same time memorable and special.  If you take the following into consideration, we think you too will have a successful visit with the grandparents.

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1. Length of Stay.

We suggest planning well in advance, and settling on an ideal number of days that is comfortable for both you and your host.  Personally we think that a week would be the longest we’d stay (unless we rented a vacation home) with 4 or 5 nights being the most ideal.  However itineraries greatly depend on how far you might be traveling. When we travel all the way across the country, we tend to plan a longer stay.  Regardless, be sure to send your host a copy of your itinerary so they are aware of your travel arrangements!

2. Sleeping Arrangements.

Consider your sleeping arrangements at home and what works best for you and your kids.  Then work with your host ahead of time to plan for a similar set up.  In a perfect world we would all have our own separate spaces just like at home, but we all know that is hard to recreate on the road. We do get creative though, and have had kids sleeping in closets and laundry rooms! Definitely important to think outside the box.  Not all grandparents have ample room (or are prepared to accommodate entire families) in their homes, so vacation rentals should also be considered.  VRBO, Home Away, and Airbnb are great places to start.

3. Food.

Our parents have always been happy to stock up on a few important food staples to make the kids feel more at home, and to make meal time easier.  Milk, bread, fruit, cheese, and cereal seem to please most.  Come up with a short list a few days before your trip, and make sure to alert your hosts of food allergies.

4. Toys and books.

A few toys and a small collection of books picked up at the thrift store or goodwill (even the dollar store!) will go a long way with keeping little ones entertained and happy while grown-ups visit and catch up.  This also comes in handy for those early risers who need some amusement before the rest of the house wakes up.  See if your host might be willing to do a little shopping for you ahead of time.

5. Transportation.

Important questions to think about:

  • Car Seats?
  • Number of spots in the host’s car?
  • Will you need a rental car?
  • Is your host able to pick you up at the airport, train station, etc?

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6. Kid/Baby Accessories.

Note all of the devices and accessories that you use for your routines at home.  Choose what’s essential, and work with your host to see if they are able to secure any items for you.  Car seats, high chairs, strollers, baby seats/swings can often be rented or collected from friends and family nearby.

7. Activities.

We try to do a bit of research ahead of time to get an idea of some of the attractions and sights we are most interested in seeing.  We prepare for a balance of activity and downtime so as not to exhaust everyone.  We also consider what would work best for the ages (and nap times) of our kids at the time of that particular visit. We also leave wiggle room (or talk ahead) for allowing our hosts to choose activities–no need to run the entire show!

8. Courtesy and Flexibility (Dos and Don’ts).

Do make yourself aware of your host’s sleeping preferences.  If your hosts go to bed early, keep the house quiet in the evening.  If they like to sleep in, do your best to quiet your kids if they are early risers.  We often take the kids outside for a walk or run to get coffee in the morning.

Do clean up after yourself and your children. Dishes, picking up clothes & toys, straightening up in the bathroom, making beds all should be part of your routine.

Don’t plan a rigid and packed schedule. No need to micromanage the entire visit.  Plan for a few activities or have a loose outline, and leave the rest to figure out as you go.

Don’t leave without tidying up. Talk to your host and find out what would be most helpful.  You might strip the beds and start a load of laundry with linens and towels, but check with your host first!

9. Kid/Baby Proof.

Close to our arrival, we try to do a quick sweep of the home for potential hazards and items that are breakable and within the reach of tiny hands.  Often our parents do this ahead of time any way, but sometimes they miss things or don’t realize just how destructive kids can be at times! Better to be safe than sorry with valuable, important, and/or sentimental possessions.  We also talk with our kids, and lay down some ground rules for what’s okay and not okay to touch.

10. Gifts and Thank yous.

Simple gifts go a long way in showing hosts how much you appreciate their hospitality and willingness to open their home to you.  Coffee, a bottle of wine, a candle, flowers, or something special from your hometown are all good gifts that come to mind. Hosts might also appreciate being taken out for a meal, or having a meal cooked for them at home. When we return home, we always send a written thank you note.  Sometimes we even enclose photos from our visit!

 What else should families consider when visiting out-of-town grandparents?

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Book Review: Elliott the Otter

Book Review: Elliott the Otter |

Author and Illustrator pair, John Skewes and Eric Ode have been keeping us busy this summer with exciting water themed reads.  The fun started with their newest Larry Gets Lost title, Larry Gets Lost Under the Sea, which I reviewed a couple of weeks back.

Their most recent picture book, Elliott the Otter is another perfect blend of fact and fiction.  The story introduces us to Elliott, an adorable, but bossy otter who runs the show on Puget Sound’s Elliott Bay.  Thanks to our buddy Elliott and his excellent leadership, cargo comes and goes, ferry boats transport people (and cars) across the water, and fish travel to and fro.

Book Review: Elliott the Otter | WildTalesof.comElliott saves the biggest surprise and most important (and dazzling) responsibility for the very end though, and you’ll just have to grab your own copy to see for yourself!

What I find so much fun about the Elliott the Otter book is that Bergen (nearly 4 years) believes that Elliott is real.  Now, when ever we visit Elliott Bay or drive along the waterfront in Seattle, Bergen asks if Elliott is around.

Here’s a little more of what I love about Elliott the Otter: The Totally Untrue Story of Elliott, Boss of the Bay:

  • In a simple way and through a lovable character, kids (and adults) learn about the inner workings of a harbor, and if those kids and adults happen to live in Seattle like us, then they’re better able to connect to the city and understand what makes it tick.
  • Besides learning about cargo, barges, and freighters, Elliott teaches us about orca pods, salmon navigation, and the transition from fresh water to salt water. Such important information presented in an easy to understand format.
  • The illustrations are playful, yet realistic.  Playful and exaggerated enough to grab the attention of the reader, but also realistic enough so that the reader will recognize and associate the images with the real life version.

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Info to Know:

  • To purchase a copy of Elliott the Otter by John Skewes and Eric Ode visit the Sasquatch Books website!
  • Format: Hardcover, 8 1/4 x 8 1/4 inches, 32 pages
  • Retail cost: $16.99

What’s one of your family’s favorite reads this summer?

Disclosure: Thanks to Sasquatch Books for providing me  with a copy of Elliott the Otter for purposes of review. All opinions expressed here are my own.

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If You’re at a Dead End +News and Inspiration//2

If you're at a dead end, take a deep breath, stamp your foot, and shout "Begin!" You never know where it will take you. |


  • This weekend, we’re beginning our big road trip through Idaho and Montana.  First up: Hayden Lake, Idaho! Hayden Lake is north of the more well known Coeur d’Alene, and is absolutely a magical place.
  • We recently contributed to a huge National Park round up with the blog, “Roadtrips for Families”. 30 out of the 58 National Parks are covered making it an amazing reference for families interested in checking out national parks this summer (and beyond)!


  • Have you ever wondered what it would be like to do a thru-hike like the Appalachian Trail or Pacific Crest Trail?  This eye opening video shows an interesting glimpse.  He filmed 1 second of each day on the PCT.
  • Beach goers in the Carolinas are getting more and more creative.
  • I’d love to get into geo-caching as the kids get older.  Play Outside Guide shares how its more than just a scavenger hunt.
  • How would you answer the question: “When you were a kid, what did you do for fun?” 3 Generations share their answers.

Happy Weekend!

What adventures do you have planned?






Seattle’s Volunteer Park Dahlias//2015

While spending time at Volunteer Park’s wading pool in order to get some relief from the sweltering 97 degree day last weekend, Georgia started to get a little restless.  There’s only so much a baby who doesn’t yet sit-up on her own can take.  So I loaded her on my back and we decided to wander over to check on the Dahlia garden near by leaving Slaed and Bergen on their own to splash in the cool water.

Every year, for over 30 years now,  the volunteers from the Puget Sound Dahlia Association dutifully tend to this space planting the tubers in the spring, and then digging them up in early November.  I’m used to getting to enjoy the blooms well into September, sometimes even in October, but this year I have a feeling it’s going to be quite different.  What seems like constant sunshine and warm temperatures are making for early opening and growth for all the foliage around Seattle.

While this particular garden is not at its peak yet, it will be in next few weeks, so we’ll need to return sooner than later to really view the garden in its full glory.

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Southeast USA Travel: Waxhaw, NC with Kids

Waxhaw, North Carolina isn’t exactly a hot spot for tourism or a big adventure destination, but since we’ve visited the lovely small town a few times now, and it’s where my sister and her family call home, I thought it deserved a little attention.

Waxhaw is located about 40 minutes south of (downtown) Charlotte, and is situated just over 2 miles from the North Carolina-South Carolina border.  This proximity actually causes a great debate around the region as to where the true birth place of our 7th president, Andrew Jackson, was born.  Both states claim him as their own and feature plaques depicting this to be true.  In my opinion, after visiting Andrew Jackson State Park in Lancaster, South Carolina, the Palmetto State gets to hold the title, but that’s neither here nor there.

Since we always stay with family, I don’t have recommendations for lodging or accommodations, but I do have plenty of recommendations for fun activities and delicious dining!

Where to Play in Waxhaw

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Disneyland with a Preschooler: How to Prepare for a Successful Trip

Just before the Diamond Celebration (60th Anniversary) hullabaloo at Disneyland got started, Slaed and Bergen (3.5 years old) squeaked in a visit to the park for the little guy’s first Disney experience.  While I was somewhat bummed that I wouldn’t be present for Bergen’s introduction to the happiest place on earth, there’s definitely something to be said about a solo-parent and child trip.  Bergen got the one-on-one attention that he craves, and the whole weekend was able to be focused around him and his preferences and needs making it all a huge success.

Parents have to do what’s best for their particular family, but we believe that 3 years is the best age for a first time visit.  The child is old enough to understand and navigate on their own, there are plenty of rides for them to go on, and the experience for them is positively magical and awe inspiring.  Slaed reported that our normally rambunctious little boy spent the majority of his time sitting, wide eyed with his mouth open captivated by the all of the action happening around him.

After months of preparation and research, combined with his own knowledge from numerous visits to the park prior, Slaed put together an amazing itinerary. Their experience, one day in Disneyland and one day in California adventure was nothing but positive.  I picked his brain, and we’ve put together 9 tips to help parents plan and prepare for a trip that is just as successful.

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1. Tear-Free in Disneyland

Soon after Slaed decided to take Bergen to Disneyland, he purchased the Tear-Free in Disneyland book.  He read it cover to cover, studying up almost every night during the months prior to their trip.  The book is filled with practical tips and ideas for making the whole Disney experience positive and stress free.  He learned a ton, and gained the confidence and bravery needed to tackle it all on his own.  Many (but not all!) of the the tips that follow come from or are adapted from the book.

2. Buy Your Tickets

Make sure to purchase tickets directly through Disneyland.  Doing so ahead of time will give you peace of mind, and save you from waiting in one more line! In our opinion, there is no need for park hopper passes when you are visiting Disney with little kids.  Focus on one park per day.  Slaed and Bergen spent one day in Disneyland, and one day in California Adventure.

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3. Get Your Kid(s) Excited!

You may know all about Disneyland, but mostly likely, and certainly in Bergen’s case, your kids have little to no idea what the park is really all about.  Even if they visited as a baby or toddler, they are unlikely to remember much.  Just like we build background knowledge before visiting a new destination, we worked to make sure he had an understanding of what the experience would be like.  Our suggestions:

  • Watch Videos: Poke around and find shows, programs, music videos, etc. that feature the park itself.  We recommend, Sing Along Songs Disneyland Fun.  It’s just 30 minutes long, and takes you on a tour of the park while singing classic Disney songs (“It’s A Small World”, “Zip-A-Dee-Doo-Dah”, “Whistle While You Work”…).
  • Coloring Books with Characters: Bergen received a Disneyland coloring book from the flight attendants during a couple of our Alaska Airlines flights prior to the trip.  This worked out perfectly to teach him about the classic characters (Mickey, Minnie, Donald, Goofy, etc.).
  • Picture Books: Check your library for books that show the park experience.  D is for Disneyland is a great example as it has pictures showing the rides, quick facts about rides, and fun historical information.

4. Purchase Gifts and Gear

Plan ahead so you can shop sales and consignment stores for shirts, hats, and maybe even underwear for your big trip.  Buying at the park (and in Downtown Disney) is very expensive and wastes precious park time.  Slaed also bought a few small gifts (Tow Mater & Lightning McQueen hot wheel type cars & a small doddle board) to give Bergen once they arrived.   This prevented Bergen from asking to buy things in the gift shops, and also gave him something to do while waiting in line.

5. Ride Research

Know the following about all the rides and attractions:

  • Height limits–measure your child!
  • Fear Factors–dark, heights, pirates, thunder…can all be scary to kids.  Know what your kid can handle.
  • Closed rides–some rides are closed for various reasons.  Know this ahead of time so that no one is disappointed!
  • Make a priority list of what rides your kid wants to do.  Slaed and Bergen had about 10 on their list (for 1 day in Disneyland), so anything additional was a bonus!
  • Bonus tip: Mickey’s Toontown (a top attraction for preschoolers) opens one hour after the park opens, so choose rides close to this area for your first hour or so in the park.  Bergen and Slaed checked It’s a Small World, Dumbo, & the Teacups off their list, and were right at the entrance to Toon Town when it opened.  They were immediately greeted by all the characters & met 4 or 5 in a matter of just 10-15 minutes!

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6. Get Restaurant Reservations

If you are interested in dining at any of the popular restaurants throughout the park, we highly recommend that you secure reservations ahead of time.  Disney allows you to do this up to 60 days in advance.  You can find a list of the restaurants here, but Slaed suggests the Blue Bayou, and recommends lunch over dinner to save money.  Not only is the food tasty, but the atmosphere prepared Bergen for the Pirates of the Caribbean—a ride that was definitely a stretch for him as far as fear factor.

7. Don’t Bring a Stroller!

Contrary to popular belief, the stroller will actually just slow you down rather than making travel throughout the park quicker. Disneyland is crowded.  You’ll constantly be running into people, will always have to worry about parking the stroller, and your child won’t really engage in the full experience.  Go on walks frequently (everyday!) prior to your visit to Disneyland to build stamina.  Overall, you and your child will do a lot of walking at Disneyland, but it’s never that much all at once since you just pop from ride to ride, attraction to attraction, etc.

8. Character Alert!

Know whether or not your child is afraid of people in costumes, mascots, and dressed up characters.  We were lucky enough to get to test this out during our trip to Oahu when we attended Aulani’s character breakfast, and we also attend plenty of sporting events to get an idea of how Bergen reacts to the mascots like the Seattle Mariner Moose.  When he met Mickey for the first time, he was surprised at how big he was compared to the Mickey that he is used to watching on TV! If your child is too afraid, you can just avoid that whole aspect of the park experience.  My friend Keryn from has an excellent post about tackling your child’s mascot/character fears.

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9. Day Before/Day of Tips

  • Makes sure EVERYONE gets a good night’s sleep.
  • Eat breakfast before entering the park (saves money & time).  Bring snacks along.  As long as you are not bringing an entire picnic meal, Disney is okay with you bringing in small food items.  Hungry kids get cranky, so be prepared!
  • Talk to your child(ren) about the plan for the day so that they know what to expect.  Show them a map & circle the priority rides on your list.
  • Arrive 10-15 minutes before the gates open.  No need to arrive SUPER early.  You’ll just end up waiting in yet another line.  If you can time it perfectly, just arrive exactly when the gates open–you’ll get right in, the lines go quickly at that point.
  • Plan to leave the park for rest/nap time.  If you build this into your day, to your kid, it’ll just be part of the experience.  It’s essential to recharge EVERYONE’s batteries.  It’s just not worth it to try to “do it all” and run you and your kids ragged.  Leave when it’s fun, NOT when your kids are completely exhausted, and you’re dragging them out of the place kicking and screaming.
  • Wondering about fireworks? We say, don’t worry about it.  You’re better off getting back “home” so your preschooler can get to bed fairly close to their bedtime.  Plus, you’ll avoid the crazy crowd exiting right as the fireworks show is over.

Have you been to any of the Disney Parks? We’d love to hear about one of your highlights! Or…share your own tip for how to prepare for a successful trip.

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