Our toddler (now 2.5 years old) is curious. He also likes to push the limits constantly checking to see where his boundaries lie. In other words, he keeps us on our toes, and in our adventures and travels we must constantly be aware of potential dangers or accidents lurking around the corner.
Enjoying the outdoors with him obviously has so many benefits, but like everything in life there are always things to watch out for. Thinking of our most recent camping trip to the Oregon coast, along with getting enough sleep, planning out meals, and staying dry and warm from the elements, keeping Bergen safe and unharmed from our campfires was at the top of the list.
Like many toddlers, he’s a mini-scientist. He wants to know how things work, but we’re not about to let him test out how a fire might feel and risk potential burns and a visit to the emergency room (especially while on the road). Instead, we’ve done our best to prevent any mishaps.
4 Tips for Keeping Toddlers Safe around Campfires
1. Talk, talk, talk.
Before this last trip, we had several conversations about the dangers of touching a campfire and what to expect. We talked about why we would make the fire, it’s purpose, and how to safely interact with it. He may seem young for these discussions, but you might be surprised at how much a toddler actually understands!
We also talked about the campfire when we arrived at our site, while my brother was making the fire, and of course when the fire was burning away ready for us to warm up and roast marshmallows around it.
2. Read books about camping.
Also before our last trip, we checked out several picture books from our local library that had camping themes. This not only prepared Bergen for our trip in general, but allowed him to see pictures of kids and their families around the campfire interacting safely. A few of the books we found that were helpful included:
- When We Go Camping by Margriet Ruurs
- Let’s Go Camping! by Jan Mader
- Follow the Trail: A Young Person’s Guide to the Great Outdoors by Jessica Loy
- The Lost Lake by Allen Say
*Note: We found each of the above titles at our local public library. I’ve also included affiliate links to Amazon for quick and easy purchase.
3. Communicate with camping partners and trade-off supervision.
After our first camping trip with Bergen as a toddler (as opposed to a baby when we could easily carry or lay him down safely), we quickly learned that one of the adults had to “be in charge” of supervising him exclusively. Setting up and doing chores around camp can be a lot of work, so at first we (my husband and I) thought it would be better for both of us to work at the same time and do our best to wrangle the little guy.
That plan backfired when we realized we actually got less done and we felt more frustration. Instead we decided to trade off supervision. One adult would enjoy camp life with Bergen while the other worked. Without a plan, one parent (or adult) is bound to think the other is paying attention and vice versa, and that’s when accidents can happen!
4. Build a physical barrier to act as a visual.
An actual physical barrier, such as a circle of large rocks or even a fence, serves as a reminder that the fire is present. In addition to being curious, toddlers are also easily distracted and that extra step can help when something off in the woods catches their eye. Just don’t completely rely on the obstruction you create though. Proper supervision and teaching about fire safety is still very necessary!
Have you experienced campfires with toddlers? What are your suggestions for safety?
Come join the conversation! You can keep up to date with each and every post by subscribing to the blog via email. We’d also love to have you join us on all of our adventures by “liking” our facebook page and following us on twitter! If you enjoyed this post, please “like it”, “tweet it” or “pin it”!
Carley at whereRVgoing.com says
Very good reminder about campfires. When our kids were little we would bring a folding play gate that we could wrap around the fire to keep the kids away. 🙂
Kate says
Thanks so much! That is a smart idea regarding the folding play gate–a good visual and barrier as little toddlers can be so unpredictable and SO FAST!
andthreetogo says
I haven’t had Z near a campfire since she was a wee babe, but this list will help me when I do in the future. Thanks!
Kate says
Awesome! Hope you guys get to camp (or just sit around a fire) soon! 🙂
malaysianmeanders says
#3 is a very good tip. I think I would have figured out that one the hard way. Thankfully, we are past this stage now. My oldest is actually in charge of collecting wood and starting the fire himself now. He’s better at it than I am.
Kate says
Thanks, Michele! Yes, we learned the hard way too on our trip last summer to Kalaloch. The next trip went so much smoother!
I love the idea of giving jobs to kids! It gets them involved, and they start to understand how everything works & thus, they’ll respect the dangers. 🙂 Bergen loves collecting sticks (rite of passage for a toddler?) so that’s been a great way to get him involved.
Audrey says
I recently camped with my 15 month old. One of my coworkers gave me the best advice in teaching him to stay away from the fire. Very early in the trip, I held him in my arms near the fire, close enough to feel the heat. He stayed far away from it for the rest of the camping trip and I didn’t have to worry about him at all. He learned that being near the fire was hot and that he didn’t like it. He avoided it after that.
Kate says
Sounds like a great way to teach kids the seriousness of touching fire & getting too close! Thank you so much for sharing!